The Becoming Journal — A Guided Space for the Singapore Mum Navigating Matrescence

A Singapore Mum's Matrescence Journal

The Becoming

Everyone bought a gift for the baby.
This one is for you.

60 prompts for the mum who is still finding her way back to herself. Written by a Singapore mum, for Singapore mums.

What's Inside

60 guided prompts across 5 parts. Literary typography designed for emotional breathing room.

60 guided prompts across 5 parts

Singapore-specific context (confinement, kiasu culture, HDB life)

Fillable PDF for iPad / tablet / laptop

Literary typography designed for emotional breathing room

Print-friendly format for physical journaling

Lifetime access — download once, keep forever

Part 1: The Grief

Prompts for the losses no one warned you about — identity, sleep, spontaneity, and the version of yourself you are still mourning.

Part 2: The In-Between

For the liminal space where you are no longer who you were, but not yet who you are becoming. Gentle prompts for uncertainty and hope.

Part 3: The Becoming

Reclaiming yourself through small, deliberate acts. Prompts that help you recognise the mother you are growing into.

Part 4: Singapore & Me

Confinement, kiasu culture, HDB life, and the uniquely Singaporean layers of motherhood. Prompts rooted in the place you call home.

Part 5: Letters

Write to your past self, your future self, your child, your partner. Letters that become keepsakes.

Sneak Peek

Six pages from inside the journal — a taste of the prompts waiting for you.

Prompt 1 of 60

A Prompt on Grief

What did you leave behind when you became a mother? Write about one thing you miss — and one thing you have found instead.

Prompt 2 of 60

The In-Between

Describe a moment this week when you felt neither fully yourself nor fully 'mum.' What did that space feel like?

Prompt 3 of 60

The Becoming

What is one small habit you have developed since becoming a mother that actually belongs to you, not your child?

Prompt 4 of 60

Singapore & Me

Write about one Singaporean tradition or cultural expectation around motherhood that you have embraced, resisted, or redefined.

Prompt 5 of 60

A Letter to Your Child

Dear one — I want you to know that before you arrived, I was someone too. Let me tell you about her...

Prompt 6 of 60

A Letter to Yourself

Write to the woman you were on the day you found out you were pregnant. What would you want her to know?

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I needed this when I became a mum and couldn't find it. So I made it.

— The founder of MumNearby

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60 prompts. One journal. For the mum who deserves to be seen too.

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